Trust

Human beings are wired to trust. Our life in society is built on trust: trust in others, in institutions, and in the reality that surrounds us.

After experiencing painful situations, some people come to believe that the world is not a safe place and adopt the principle of distrusting everyone and everything. They build a life that is more distant, more cautious, and, in a way, more protected. By not trusting, they are less likely to feel disappointed. They suffer less, that is true… but they also allow themselves to experience less of life. They may cross paths with wonderful people whom they never allow into their lives simply because distrust takes up too much space.

Others, however, maintain their ability to trust and see the world as a place full of possibilities. This attitude undoubtedly opens doors: it encourages encounters, creates more spontaneous connections, and allows them to experience life more fully. But it also comes with a cost. Those who constantly trust will often encounter the limitations of others: selfishness, excessive ambition, lack of empathy, or the many forms that human suffering can take.

Trust is essential for life. But it is equally necessary to learn how to discern and to express ourselves clearly.

Blind trust is not the answer. Distrusting everyone and everything is not the answer either. The key lies in trusting ourselves. When we remain connected to what we feel, to our intuition, and to our inner signals, we can recognize when it is time to open ourselves and surrender to connection, and when it is necessary to protect ourselves and set boundaries.

"As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live." — Goethe